Sexting Tips – Don’t Go There Until You Read These First
Follow These Sexting Tips and See How Easy It Really Is!
1. Don’t Sext Too Soon
If you just met somebody, you don’t want to turn it sexual too soon because then it becomes all about sex. Give them something to look forward to—tame it down a bit if your relationship is new. You can talk naughty and flirty, but don’t get too dirty too soon. This is one of our sexting tips you need to remember!
2. Be a Little Bit of a Tease
Try to build their anticipation of seeing you next…create some mystery. Make them use their imagination to fill in some blanks.
3. There is no picking up where you left off.
Right as you saw your sext partner was typing, you or your phone shut down or you got an important business call you couldn’t leave unanswered. If more than 10 minutes have passed, don’t even bother trying to pick up where you left off. Your lack of response time is the equivalent of having no birth control on your person and needing to run to the store to get some. By the time you come back, your sext partner has likely moved on to PG texts with one of their parents. Re-build the tension all over again, it’ll be worth it!
4. Lose the Emoticons
Seriously, do not put cute little animated pictures in an X-rated conversation. Emojis are meant to be clever, not sexy. The only permissible emoji in a sext session is the winky-face, and that should be restricted to the beginning to indicate that the raunchiness is about to happen.
5. Don’t be afraid to push the limits
Don’t stay in the tease phase too long. Sexting is best enjoyed as fiction, a form of storytelling that allows the sexters to escape and indulge in their fantasies. It should be a judgment-free place of expressing erotic thoughts and desires which is why you should not be afraid to be as open about your desires as possible.
But you should also be aware that it’s not uncommon for your partner to hold different interests. The purpose of sexting is to have a good time; don’t ruin it by being pushy.
6. Jog His Memory
Tell him what got you totally turned on the last time you were together. Maybe it was the way he sensuously ran his hands through your hair or the way he swirled his tongue on a certain body part.
7. Leave Him Hanging—Just a Little
Messages that beg to be responded to will keep the game and the exchange building towards your next real life meet-up.
8. Give Plenty of Feedback
Like what your partner is saying? Did something said really spark your inner fire? Tell them! Remember that your partner on the other end can’t see you and wants to know you’re into what they’re saying. The more we know how much our sexts are being enjoyed the more fuel we will have to go further.
9. Try a Sext Strip Tease
Throughout the day, text your partner what you want to do to him—or, what you want her to do to you later that night. At times, include a racey photo. The anticipation of getting it on can be as exciting as actually doing it.
10. Photos are great…But…
It will always be in your best interest to NOT include your face in those extra special pics ! Do the math…over 90% of relationships fail…and when they do…Sometimes they aren’t on the best of terms…Think about That!
Bonus Sexting Tips
Turn off auto-correct! No need for an explanation here.
Be alone while sexting. Distractions will not help your flow.
Offer special favors in return for favors in the middle of sexting and you might just get more of what you want when you are together in person.