15 Sexy Texts to Make Him Want You More
By: Erin Elizabeth – guest poster
Sexy texts are the best way to be a master as talking dirty without having to feel awkward, uncomfortable or embarrassing yourself. No doubt you want to send texts that make him want you more, right? Dirty talk is important, to be honest, and is something men look for in a woman. But dirty talk done wrong can be pretty much… a fatal turn off that sends men running… or at least, makes them cringe.
Is talking dirty a truly confusing topic that you really would rather hide under a rock than try to do? If so, do not worry. It’s not as “hard” as you think; it honestly isn’t “hard” at all.
In fact, talking “dirty” is not going to be hard anymore once you know these texts to send…
Dirty talk is not the be all end all in relationships but can be a huge turn on for men. But only when done right.
“Right” means you are never trying to come off a certain way. By come off in a certain way all I mean is… don’t say things you do not mean and do not have the notion of trying to impress. Trying to impress comes off as awkward and turns men off. If he is turned off, he will not receive your texts in a way that will turn him on. If you text too much or too often, that is another sure way to turn him off. Just relax because you will not have to worry about this stuff because I will give you the best of the best sexy text messages.
Texting has its unique benefits when it comes to talking dirty.
By safe I mean… you do not have to come up with things to say on the fly. You can sit, let your mind process what you want to say and respond. You can plan and have the comfort of knowing that you are not under pressure.
How to Begin
Don’t say something explicit right away unless you are fully comfortable; being natural is what will come off to him. If you feel turned on, your vibe will come off to him. The vibe you give off will determine whether you turn him on or not. If you feel awkward and uncomfortable,
List of Sexy Texts:
- I am so turned on right now. (only if you’re comfortable with each other and know that he has a sexual interest in you)
- Do you want to know what I’m wearing right now?
- Don’t judge me. But I really am “in the mood.”
- I can’t stop thinking about you… being… inside me. (note: only if you are already clearly with him)
- What would you do to me right now if you were with me?
- Do you have any random turn ons?
- Do you watch porn? I’m convinced all men do. Is that true?
- I’m so bored. What are you thinking of right now?
- I’m really bored right now. I’m just sitting in my bed doing nothing.
- I’m all alone right now.
- Have you ever “sexted” with anyone or sent naughty pictures before? (he won’t know what your motive is for asking you are being coy without being over the top… vague enough to hint but not explicitly saying it outloud)
- Have you ever done anything crazy sexually before?
- Do you have any “odd” sexual kinks?
- Have you ever dreamed of doing anything crazy before?
- I’m going to take a shower right now, be right back. (obviously if you are in the middle of a texting conversation!)
The above texts are ideal because none are too “out there” but they do enough to plant the idea of something physical and sexual with you in his mind.
Don’t worry, just be comfortable and let this vibe come off. Always have fun. If you are comfortable and have fun, it will come across in your texts. And things will progress naturally. Don’t ever try to force it.
And remember to always think of the situation you are in with him. So don’t send a really forward text to a guy who you have never had any clear sexual exchange with.